Last night I wrote my Christmas cards. I have three married cousins I send them to. They all have children.
The three sets of kids are known to me as...
1. & Thomas
2. & Boys
3. & Family
I'm sure Thomas wants to be known as "Tom" or at least "Tommy" by now. "Boys" are growing up, too, old enough to read and wondering why this "Geoff" person doesn't know their names. "Family" are feeling even more put out as this "Geoff" twat doesn't even know how many of them there are, let alone what sex they may be.
It's too much of an effort to ask any questions. I'll just have to make notes when we receive cards from them. Get it right next year.